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So, let’s see…It’s been a while. Life has been crazy, so crazy that it has affected my writing progress. Things haven’t been the easiest lately. Have you ever felt stuck in a situation? Lately, that’s been the feeling. How do you escape it? You definitely have to pray, but when you pray please keep the conversation between you and God. He knows and has all the answers. Sometimes asking others for advice can make things a little confusing for you, and no one knows your situation and how it is affecting you like God does. After praying about the situation that makes you feel stuck, you have to listen to what God tells you to do about your situation. Sometimes we listen and we know we are hearing from God, however we are afraid to follow through with what God is telling us to do. Getting over fear is majority of the battle when making a huge decision. Everything God tells you to do may not be comfortable for you, however it’s always the best thing for you. When God speaks to us, he waits patiently for us to follow through with what he has told us. The sooner you decide to trust in God and take a step of faith, the sooner you will experience a sense of freedom from feeling stuck. God has more for your life and this is why you feel stuck in your current situation. Life can be more fulfilling than what you are experiencing. Know and trust that God has more for your life, so pray, listen, and make the decision to follow through with what God tells you to do. Life is not a fairytale, there is a reason for every situation you go through, however seeking God’s word for the next steps to take can help you escape an expired season in your life.  Each season of your life has an expiration date, just like food.
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This Christmas was amazing! First off, the weather was perfect! I enjoyed every moment of the warm sun shining down on this beautiful day Jesus was brought into this world. I wrapped my gifts really late (which means on Christmas Day...lol). Nonetheless, I thought I would share a few gifts I purchased for my best friend (B). B is tall and lean so I knew I would have to get him something with long sleeves in it. I thought the shirts below and the MK Cologne "Cityscape" from my Mary Kay Consultant and former recruiter Atiya McNeal, would be just the appropriate gift for this holiday season. The cologne has a clean, sophisticated smell, that isn't too loud and he can dress the shirts up or down. I like the fact that me and B (bestfriend) has the same style. This made it a little easier when shopping for him.
Click the link to purchase: Cityscape Cologne  Izod plaid, button-up shirt. Material is soft and gives me hard-working man lumber jack vibes.  You can wear this Izod shirt with your choice of accessory to take it next level. Give it your own flair.  You can pair this Chaps button-up shirt with some nice slacks or khakis.  This Wrangler button-up shirt was actually B's favorite. Pair this with some black jeans and be on your way out the door. Hi, if you have found your way to my blog I would like to tell you that today is a very special day. Today is my 32nd birthday! I hold so many titles but my favorite one is "overcomer." I’m a woman who has experienced many things from jealousy, to hatred, to physical and verbal abuse and out of all those things I’m still standing. Life is no fairytale, however God still has the solution to any problem you may face. My mood today is thankful, I’m too blessed to be tripping about anything old or new. There will always be things you can trip out about, however growth is when you choose happiness and to focus on all the good things. The small things are just distractions and are there to stop you from being your best self. No one knows your story, we all have one. Make sure you are using yours to uplift someone else. Don’t allow your circumstances to make you bitter. You’re stronger than anything that can come up against you and you deserve a peace of mind and happiness. Happiness and resentment can’t co-exist. On this day as I celebrate another year that I’ve walked with God and family and friends here on earth, I stand proud of what I chose not to allow to consume me. I stand proud of the fact that not only did I survive every attack that threatened my life, but I am thriving gracefully.
 What’s in the way of your dreams? Is it time, money, or health conditions? I’ve been struggling for a while to find a balance in my life to work towards accomplishing my next dream. I’ve been a dreamer since childhood but sometimes continuing to work on my dreams can be challenging, and then it hit me. Steve Harvey said on his radio show that your discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. After hearing this, I figured that I need to find a way to accomplish the next dream that I have been desiring for too long. I’ve been working on it, but I often start and then stop due to life happenings and let's be honest, mainly the lack of energy.
Sometimes after working hard every day, my energy feels like it is zapped from me. Finding that quiet, therapeutic time for yourself is key. I took a break with blogging for a while, but then realized I needed to go back to the very thing that saved me. It helped keep me grounded years ago when I was going through recovery from an injury. Fast-forward to today and it is playing that same role in my life once again. I’m grateful to have this outlet. Not only is it providing the therapy I need to set the tone for a conducive environment and mindset for me to work towards my next dream, but hopefully I am helping others in the process. Don’t give up on your dreams; you have to fight for them. This world will throw every distraction at you that it has, but you have to fight. Drag yourself up off the couch when you get home. With every ounce of breath or piece of energy you can muster up, work towards your dream. Strive to complete one thing towards your dream each day, no matter how large or small. Your life is worth it. It is worth being able to look back and see that you did everything you wanted to do in life. You explored this world and your limits, you worked hard but had fun while doing it. Please keep going (I’m saying this to you as I also say it to myself). I hope this blesses you! Trish  Teach them that curse words are only for people who have a limited vocabulary.
Those are the people who want an adversary. Every day I seek and pray to the most high. So that my soul can be at rest when I die. In life I've learned that people will say things to hurt you. When all they really want is a debut. Insecurity comes from this. Confidence resides in bliss. Overlook them and know there will be things you have to endure. However these are the things that God uses to make you mature. Get back to your father's business. Nothing else really matters; I am a witness. All these extra things are just a distraction. God's plan for your life is the main attraction. Trish What do you do when you don't know what to do? You've prayed, you've stayed the course but yet you're feeling stuck. What do you do when you don't know what to do? You're worried about bills and feel like you have no luck. What do you do when you don't know what to do? You're not feeling valued, and you know what you bring to the table. What do you do when you don't know what to do? When you're stuck in between a dream and reality, and this world seems to always make you a label. What do you do when you don't know what to do? The only thing that's left to do, is pray and fast and make "you" a priority. What do you do when you don't know what to do? It's never been easy not being a majority. Trish  This generation needs to be saved. Social media sends messages that you can make it off of looks and popularity. This generation needs to be saved. Tik Tok videos promote violent challenges that many people actually follow through with in order to get likes and attention. This generation needs to be saved. Validation now comes from whoever is on the other side of the computer screen and it doesn’t matter if they know you or not. This generation needs to be saved. Depression has increased because so many are comparing themselves with others who share their highlights on social media. This generation needs to be saved. Lets get back to when the only people whose opinions mattered were the ones who were closest to you. This generation needs to be saved. Trish   The following signs are just a few that may mean it is time to have a heart to heart talk with your woman:
She begins to distance herself. She stops returning calls. She comes home real late and can’t explain where she’s been. She doesn’t seem interested in conversations anymore. She gets upset about small things and there are consistent arguments. Why does a woman choose to degrade her man? She doesn’t care about him and she is more than likely using him or she may be trying to make him feel bad about himself so he doesn’t go and find someone else. Why would your woman care more about making others’ happy before making you happy? She no longer cares about the relationship. How do you leave an unhealthy relationship? When you realize the person you fell in love with does not exist, this will give you the strength to leave. Many times, a person will portray themselves to be one way but they are only acting in order to get a chance with you.  The following signs are just a few that may mean it is time to have a heart to heart talk with your man.
His ways change. The things he used to do for you ceases: If he stops paying for your food after he always insists on paying, especially when you know that he can afford to pay for dinner. If he starts telling you that you cannot go with him somewhere and you went everywhere with him before. If you and him are invited to an event and you end up going alone. Why does a man choose to degrade his woman? He wants to be the star and doesn’t want his woman to outshine him. Why would your man care more about making others’ happy before making you happy? Once his feelings change for you, he is no longer concerned with if you’re happy or not. How do you leave an unhealthy relationship? Start working on loving yourself more than you love anyone else. Prayer will bring you through. Pray and ask for strength for God to bring you out of the relationship. Sometimes love is blind and you feel like you need the person and can’t see yourself without them, but once you can wean yourself out of this mindset then you can start seeing the person in the same light that they see you in. Whewww chile! Let’s talk about my natural crown! First of all, it took me a while to get comfortable with wearing my natural hair. I used to get my hair blown out all the time after I made the decision to become natural, but nowadays I’ve been wearing my hair in its natural state. Being natural is when you have absolutely no chemicals in your hair. I stopped getting a relaxer in 2011. I remember when my mom decided to go natural first. She has a more manageable grade of hair than I do. I felt it looked great on her. She joked with me and told me I would never go natural because I was prissy and that every strand of my hair always had to be in the correct place. I shook my head and was like “I’m not prissy.” Deep down I knew she was right. I cared about my hair being in place all the time. Little did I know that I would be required to take a swim class before I graduated from East Carolina University. Yessss, I said it! Swim class! So you already know that relaxed hair doesn't go well with chlorine. Chlorine pretty much strips all the chemicals out of your hair. There was no point for me to continue putting a relaxer in my hair while I was taking swim class, so I ended up getting braids for the entire semester. After swim class ended I decided not to go back to getting a relaxer right away. Since I survived an entire semester without a relaxer I wanted to test out going natural with my hair. When I made this decision, I never looked back. Life is not a fairytale, so at the beginning it was challenging. I wasted so much money buying expensive natural hair products that didn't work for my hair. However, like anything else in life if you stick with something long enough God will begin to show you exactly what you need to know. I'm so happy I stood the test of time with learning what works for my natural hair. My hair grows even faster and is so much healthier without chemicals. I don't have to worry about my scalp burning from a relaxer or any type of irritations from the harsh chemicals. I remember one time I was at a salon and the stylist left a relaxer in my hair for too long. It was horrible. My scalp burned so bad and even after it was washed several times it continued burning. My scalp did not stop burning until after my hair was blow dried and flat ironed and even then I still felt a tingling sensation. It was the scariest feeling. The stylist thought I was being dramatic because I was young (in high school), but I knew what I was feeling. That experience alone showed me how powerful a relaxer is and it left an area in my scalp from where it burned me. I'm not trying to turn anyone away from relaxers but just be careful if you're using them. After that situation happened I started putting them in my own hair, so that I could take it out right away. Although this was the temporary fix for me during the time, the permanent fix for me happened when I chose to leave relaxers alone completely. What I noticed since being natural is getting a hair blowout straightens my hair better than any relaxer can; therefore there is no real need for me to go back to a relaxer. Oh yea, and God helped me to come across the following products below that work amazingly well on my type 4 hair🙏🏾: Curls Mixed Chicks Miss Jessie's Softee African Shea Butter African Pride Super Gro Here's a helpful link to learn more about what hair type you have: https://curls.biz/hair-type-guide/ I hope this post blesses your life! |
AuthorI'm an East Carolina University alumna. I have experience in journalism, law, radio broadcasting, television production and teaching. My goal is to make a difference in the world through media and motivational speaking. Archives
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